I agree with others the concerning interpretation of your posts as the wish to use people for your gratification. Perhaps you chose your words without thought but it is difficult for me to ignore.

It seems to me that you may be expecting the people around you owe you something like attention. My question then is what things are you willing to give them in return? I think it's time to evaluate how you define social interraction and friendship. What do you really want out of this? What do you then consider is your own part in them?

Being social and friendly actually comes with responsibility. I think you may have come across as having no wish to invest such work into peop;e to do so.

I am trying to be constructive in my critical tone here. Sometimes that too is a part of true friendship.