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Originally Posted by monalisasmile
 I really get this urge to know and it hurts when we are faced with the reality that this relationship is one sided. Did she show you Rainbow? I don't see any harm in it, she must know that you like to know these things and have an insatiable curiosity about her. |
Thanks, mona. Yes, the reality hurts. T and I are close because that's how she does therapy. I don't know why she didn't just show me a picture. Maybe because it was the end of my session. I might be more jealous if I see a picture, though. I'm not sure. T usually is agreeable. She showed me pictures of her adult children once. I think that was after I saw them on FB. I want T to be my T but sometimes I sure wish we were sisters or friends!
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I'm sure you won't be surprised that I understand this, too. Having just found pics of my MC's wife and my T's H online...The wanting to connect and feel closer to them. The therapeutic relationship and boundaries can be hard... |
Thanks, LT. I do feel close to my T, and IN session it feels mutual. I still don't understand boundaries though. Why does she need them? I've seen her almost 7 years now! I'm not going to stalk her. I'm just curious.
[QUOTE=atisketatasket;5416840]I am now pretty sure your t is Bluebeard.
rainbow - I suspect your therapist is really asking you why this would be therapeutically useful.[/Q
Yeah. I don't know the answer to that. When I think of her now, I think about him too, but he doesn't have a face yet. I want him to.
[QUOTE=SoConfused623;5416883]Rainbow, I completely understand and feel the same way. Sometimes I want to know just because I want to know and I hate having to explain it. And in my case, it does me no good explaining it because she won't tell me anything anyway! I will be terminating with her at my next appointment as I've found a new T.[/QUOTE
I'm glad you have found a new T.