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Originally Posted by rainbow8
Thanks, ruhroh. It's possible he DOES look a little like George Klooney. I don't see why not. Yeah, it was a bad session but it's over. I can move on.
Thank you. I'm not sure my T has totally contradicted herself. Idk. I'm feeling better about it because I liked her email. I don't feel so upset anymore.
The questions were about her and her bf, like, does she love him, how is he different from her ex, things that are too personal. I wasn't originally planning to read them out loud anyway. T DID listen to my answer as to how it came into my mind that I wanted to know. I said because it seemed natural, that our session was lighter than usual, and it seemed like we were friends. So I asked. I didn't think it would be a big deal. She doesn't think it would help me, and that's also her boundary. I understand her reasoning. I think she was just too abrupt and that was what triggered me. I'll tell her that when I see her next, I think.
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It would be a good thing to bring up. I struggle with abrupt transitions. Even leaving, which is predictable---we have a very slow leaving ritual so i can absorb it.my T is very attuned, as is yours, but she still sometimes will abruptly try to alter something and send me into a tail spin.talking about every time it happens has eventually got us to the point where it happens very rarely, and i have betterunderstanding of my issues with transition