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Originally Posted by divine1966
Separate your bank accounts. What he pays bills with if he doesn't work? Just pay mortgage and your own basic bills but don't give access to your account. He will have to go work if he will need gas money or buy clothes or car payments etc don't pay any of it
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Our accounts always HAVE been separate. I still have to pay all of "our" bills like mortgage, utilities, insurance, internet, phone. I usually end up paying for the entirety of those every month as it is. He STILL hasn't gone to get his check and has been negative in his account for nearly 2 weeks but since he's not leaving the house, he doesn't feel the need for any money. He hasn't asked me for any and doesn't seem to care he can't pay his own bills.