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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
From how I see you on here, you are intelligent, overly serious, highly philosophical, wants to debate your issue to death. I don't see any sense of humor. I don't see any zest for life from you. I don't see someone with a sense of fun. I do see that you are nice. You respond to everyone eventually with thoughtful response, debating your point to the death and unrelenting to see it from anyone else's POV.
With that being said, you are an acquired taste. There are people who will gravitate to you and like, even love you. Me, personally, I'd probably jump from a moving car to escape your endless, pointless debate.
I did see Ghostbusters, and understand what you mean. They were turned on by his good looks, but turned off by his stupidity. You are not stupid. Are you so anxious around pretty girls that you start acting like you are really stupid?
Let's talk about that and move away from this endless philosophical argument about generalizing how people don't respect others, yada yada yada...
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What I am like on here and what I am like in real life social situations are very different.
I real life social situations, I tend to not debate about anything and usually don't even have the guts to disagree with people. I will almost never express a viewpoint that I know everyone around me disagrees with. I actually do joke around, but my sense of humor often comes off as lame and awkward, so I am often inhibited. It really depends on whom I am hanging out with. With my 2-3 closest friends(all male) with whom there is no fear of judgement, I often end up being the clown of the group. Around my work friends, whom I don't yet feel fully accepted by, I will joke lightly when the opportunity presents itself, but it tends to be more scripted as opposed to letting loose like I do with my closer friends.
I agree that I am not stupid. But outwardly, that's exactly what it looks like. I still don't know for sure if it is because of social anxiety or slow processing speed, but what I do know is that I have a strong tendency to say and do things that are obviously incorrect, just like the guy from the movie. It is definitely more pronounced in social situations, but it is not limited only to them.
Just fyi, I have to really sit down and think when I write these posts and I typically need complete silence. These well thought out responses are not something you would ever see from me in a real life social situation. Not even close.