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Originally Posted by eskielover
My values don't open up for that option because I REFUSE to ever have sex outside marriage. Only you have the answers to the questions you are seeking the answers to. Maybe there is more than one answer to your question also. Only you know your thoughts, feelings behind your actions in order to answer your questions. Everyone has different values & reasons for the choices they make in relationships after bad marriages.
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Which option? I'm 100% with you. I have never slept with anyone but my ex-husband and will not have sex outside marriage, either.
I suppose we could say to anyone that only they have the answers. I'm looking for input from anyone who has experienced this and sorted it out, any input at all. I'm surprised at my reaction exactly because I would have said I'm the very last person on earth to have any interest in a married man. I have immediately backed away from any dating profile where I realize a man is separated--but still married.
The man I'm talking about now who joined this social group--I went to coffee with him the first time not realizing he was actually still married, and it only just came up a week or so ago in our group, and was a big surprise to me.