I'm a female and I've had the same issue...

In the end, it was just infatuation. I even went as far as leaving and dating them and having a child with them.

This infatuation has happened more than once and I ended up going back to who I was with in the first place..he still took me back..

The more you think about her, the worse it gets. And it's life, you can try it out and see if the grass is greener on the other side..I guess it can be different for everyone...but I would talk to your significant other about it..just open up..what is she going to do? Smack you? [emoji848]