I'm 50 and I've been invited to a wedding of one of my former classmates where a lot of other people from school will be going. I was also quiet and studious. I never married or had kids, I just studied and worked, and am now a carer for my elderly mum while working part time. I was thinking whether or not to go and have decided not to. I don't want to remember being bullied and sad, and see other people's happy families. So I'll pass too.