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Originally Posted by artemis-within
Hugs sakal. I'm struggling in my marriage right now too and my h refuses marriage counseling as well. It makes me feel like he doesn't even care. We have times that go on for awhile too where we get along fine and then it all goes to hell again. He says such hurtful things to me, stuff like that.
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ugg...my H says the most terrible things and then says he didn't really mean them.....then goes right back to it.
I wonder if most people's husband's do the same? It feels like I have all these holes in me with every cruel thing he says. They don't seem to ever heal.
I do say things back to him, but he isn't phased in the slightest, and then I actually feel like I've betrayed myself because I hate saying them, and I want to take them back immediately. Who can say such things to someone they are supposed to love???