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Originally Posted by Crazy Hitch
I don't think you should do anything to be honest.
I don't believe you're in the right frame of mind right now to be making rash decisions on ending friendships.
She has a life and has a lot on the go at the moment.
So perhaps she doesn't text you as often as you would like; but she still is making an effort.
She was there for her when you really needed her to be last year.
You've just had 5 weeks off work. Clearly you are unwell. Please don't do anything just yet.
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I told her i'll message her in a few weeks, she said she will talk to me before then (although i'll ignore her text if she sends me any which I doubt, she never texts me because she wants to it is always me having to text her, told her in a few weeks and I mean it). Before it was so simple? she would make time for a hangout? now since the Dec one she just says no and never schedules a "next time", she just says she's got too much going on on her days off. Can't even spare an hour? it's insulting! My first week off she said yes to a lunch, but turns out she lied again...so i'll message her back in a few weeks to try again, then when she says no i'll say a few weeks again, then i'll say a month, then when she says no i'll say peace out. What's the point in only texting 1-2 times a week for a minute or 2? even my therapist tells me to spend time with my friends once a week or more yet I can't even get 1 hour from her "busy" time. She aint busy, she just does not care about my friendship I been trying hard at.
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Originally Posted by Bill3
My main thought would be to continue therapy and to not drink.
Then, speak to your therapist so as to figure out what to do about the friendship.
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I'm cancelling my session for Friday today, wont see them until near the end of next month. My choice, i'm hoping I will blow up again. I can get so depressed and angry it feels good and I don't want to get better and feel good because it feels so stupid and undeserving.