Thanks. I didn't feel like it at the time. I was fighting back tears on the ferryboat out of there thinking "what have I done wrong to have produced the only child in the world who isn't happy to be at Disneyworld? (That was tiredness and heat talking on my part too I think). We had a really good talk today though and I was very explicit that when you are in a group of people, the thing you want isn't the most important thing or the thing that needs to happen. She wrote a rhyme:

I want to go over here
They want to go over there
If grown ups say no
You've got to go with the flow