So tired of being called the strawberry generation by Baby Boomers lol. My father has had a great career all his life. He has never been expected to work overtime without pay or work 60+ hours making less than $3.50 an hour. He paid off his housing loan really quickly. Our generation on the other had can have Masters, PHD but still have no choice but to work min wage, can't afford a home etc. But apparently his generation is the best and mine is lazy and useless.

Funny how my sister defended my father when I complained about him calling me useless, but is now venting on about how she's hurt by something awful he said to her... I just feel Shea great at invalidating me.

I tend to somehow not fall apart when people are around me as well. At the most it's a silent meltdown then the smile gets reapplied.

It's OK to not have answers, although it can be such a painful place to be. Often I don't know what helps either. If talking on the couch helps, talk away