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Originally Posted by BudFox
Yea if it's free I guess you cant be too particular, but I would not be able to get past such presumption. Can't tolerate it. Too demeaning.
And this just seems irrational: "The counselor said I didn't need any help and could do it on my own." How could anyone possibly make that judgement without knowing the person and all the relevant details? People need freaking support when making big changes.
I need to make big changes also. I don't have enough support either. And my health is a mess. If someone said stop being a victim etc, I'd tell them to eat s**t. I am something of a coward, but that is different.
I just can't comprehend this culture of aggressive advice giving. Do this, do that, then report back to me! If you don't you're a victim, you don't want to change. Shut up already.
Sorry about your cruel family/friends. That's awful.
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Ah, Bud. My hero. If only I would stand up for myself and when she said stuff like about the victim mentality ask, "How so?" It is aggressive advice giving. It is do this do than then report back to me. Just because it is free doesn't mean...I should not comment. In effect I am paying for her service because I pay the insurance carrier who she works for. It isn't like she just came in off the street.