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Originally Posted by sinking
Talking with my T today i think i found out why relationships are so hard for me and im destined to live alone.
My parents and CSA and other experiences taught me relationships mean possessiveness and me feeling smothered. that is the worst feeling for me when it happens in any relationship.
And i dont think i can have a relationship where it doesnt come up. so... im destined to live alone.
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A key component I can give you is to cognitively repel yourself from people you're attracted to. I found out whenever I'm attracted to someone, I can develop similar feelings such as at home. Instead, you can open your mind and heart to people who are strange or indifferent to your heart. That way you can emotionally adapt yourself to various people, and not just those who are a reminder of home.