The man I am dating has commitment anxiety. We see each other at least 5 times a week, taking turns spending the night with each other. The issue comes in the form of labeling what we are to each other or if we are in a relationship. He was very upfront from the beginning that he has an issue with commitment, which is why I was surprised that he is the initiator in us constantly seeing each other and wanting to spend time together. He acts, physically and emotionally like a boyfriend but isn’t comfortable with the term or any labels on what we have. He even has anxiety attacks attending weddings of friends. The mere mention of commitment sends him into a tail spin of an anxiety attack. My question is how can we move forward positively when he has these limitations and anxiety? Should I break things off or just continue in our very happy non-relationship and leave it alone?
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