Wow, $15k to a bondsman. It would not hurt my feelings to block all calls and cut off contact. I'm not able to sign on behalf of anyone, even my children. After bonding out all 3 of my exes for different things, I learned my lesson once I had my home searched and was followed everywhere I went for weeks because he didn't show for court. He left and I had no idea where he was but they didn't believe me, imagine that. I'm sorry to make it all about my story. That's just horrible to press your mom for something so steep.