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Originally Posted by continuosly blue
I can relate to your pain. I too was abandoned. The biggest lesson I learned was that I needed to get a life for myself. I had to stop thinking about how hurt I was and about the people who did it to me. Hasn't he wasted enough of your time already ? It's not going to be easy , but if you can come out on the other side of this you will be happier than ever. I say that because you got rid of a poison to yourself.
And don't care about how he's living now because he's probably not as well off as you think , and I'm not talking about money wise.
Good luck to you. Get what you can for yourself and son from him and
move forward, one step at a time.  |
continuosly blue that's exactly what I am trying to do - get a life for myself. I am sorry to hear of your own experience. I didn't check the 'date/time stamp' before responding to you - I hope that you are settled in you own situation by now (?)
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he's probably not as well off as you think , and I'm not talking about money wise. << I know exactly what you mean and agree. $$ really isn't 'all!'
It's a lot where peace of mind is concerned re bills, mortgage etc, but if there is no peace of mind or a void - then what? So many ppl. respond to 'glitter,' but where there is 'lack', it will be remain there, even if temporarily concealed.
I am waiting for $$ to settle, but until I do, I am trying to get more independent financially to take care of my
home
(not just a "house") - things are scary tough but that's my focus.
I am moving on - &
eskielover like you mentioned
peace. Not to be underrated!!
Nice hearing from you, I appreciate it so much. Take care.