Thread: I'm Not DTF!
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Old Jun 12, 2017, 06:32 AM
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Originally Posted by LiteraryLark View Post
Am I meant to live alone? All I want is to be seen and loved for who I am and not just for my body...yet that's the opposite of how I am seen. I am so devastated that at 25 I've yet to have a single serious relationship and nothing even coming close...worse yet, I get thrown the "R" word and after sex they "change their mind". What's wrong with me?
There is nothing wrong with you. I recommend not to have sex until you actually are in a relationship. Such as you have been dating for several months steadily and they treat you well and you are good friends and you fall in love. Then you have sex. The issue is that many (me in young age included)have sex first then expect to develop a relationship. It has to be the other way around.

Also sometimes when you improve your own life you meet better people. 25 is very young. My nephew is a successful college educated engineer plus he is gorgeous yet he didn't have serious relationship until 25. He is now happily married. There are no rules in life
Thanks for this!
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