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Originally Posted by RubyRae
I have had plenty of disagreements with mine but we always talked them out.Sometimes we had to agree to disagree,but they were always resolved.
We never argued though,just didn't agree on ways that I was handling or dealing with certain situations in my life.He never told me what I should do unless it was something that was harmful to me,like someone abusing me,he wanted me to call the cops and I didn't agree & would get upset for not doing so.
Are you struggling with things that are not being resolved?
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There's a couple of things. An ex T and I kind of got into it through email when I was asking questions about the new treatment program I would be going into after the PE sessions ended. I had a lot of questions and she made it clear that she didn't have time to read and respond daily to my emails. Anyway , we argued in several emails after that. Could she have handled that differently? Because I was offended, as a veteran, that a MHP would tell someone they didn't have time to answer their emails, and I voiced that, she got mad and told me that I was being inappropriate. I can't see that ever happening with my current T. She would talk things out and find a resolution to the issue that we both could live with.
Then the other ..the PDOC...put a lot of information in the report that wasn't true, she documented that she asked certain questions and gave me paperwork, neither happened. She typed the entire session and signed off on her report like one minute after I left her office. I don't really care about anything except her remarks about my behavior that were not true. Nothing bad, just not true. I really think she had me confused with someone else.
So now I have two people in the mix who are probably PO'ed at me and may be part of that BHIP team that's going to help decide my next treatment.
It's so confusing when they say voice your concerns and if you feel like you are being wronged, and they failed to mention that excluded the MH staff there.