i also need to be asked if i am going to have someone over and want the day and time. i will be starting distance school in sept so i don't need anyone knocking at my door for minor stuff. when i first got married 22 years ago the whole family of my husbands came over on a Saturday at 10 oclock in the morning and i was still in my pjs and half asleep. i blew a gasket on them. I don't mind his family but i don't get up that early on Saturdays.