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Old Jul 21, 2017, 10:01 AM
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Originally Posted by Calilady View Post
Not my current T, but I had a therapist in the past who once told me that she had a loss in the family and couldn't make the appointment. Later, she contradicted herself and she didn't even realize that she had totally admitted that she just wanted a three day vacation (long story). She didn't even catch herself.

Would this warrant you leaving therapy? I lost faith in her after this, but I can't remember how long I had been with her or how our relationship was. This is one of the few things I do remember...

Have you ever caught your T in a lie? What happened?
Wow! That's a very disturbing lie for a t to tell a client. Putting emotional stress on a client like that is sick. I caught my ex-t in a few lies during the "good" years but I never said anything to her about it. At the time, I felt the lies were little enough to overlook because I was smitten with her from transference and had the attachment thing going on. The woman turned out to be a deceitful fraud anyway. Lesson learned. So, if I were to catch my t in a lie now, rest assured I would bust her out on it. I would not trust her in the least ever again so I would def leave therapy.

How did things end up for you and your t last Friday, Calilady? Did you decide to go to your appointment?
Thanks for this!
Calilady