Mona, you're a therapist, right? If you had a client in your position, with you having missed sessions, what would you want them to do? Be quiet? Just take it? Or ask what's up?

I've gotten far more confrontational with therapists in less than nine months (way less, actually). It is not a horrible thing. And if she doesn't like it, tough.

And if you confront her and she falls apart, that's on her.