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Originally Posted by loyddssss
So, if I had found what I was looking for, I would have been justified? Maybe I should have looked harder. Anyway, no, what I did was wrong. I do know that. But I can't change that now. All I can do is try to deal with what I've done.
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i really don't think what you did was wrong....I was told by a psychiatrist...that...relationships..especially ones that have had questionable issues....should be an OPEN book.
There should be no issues with either of you looking at each others phones...there should be no issues with each of you knowing what the other is doing....etc...to rebuild trust..once it is rebuilt there may be no urges to look at each others stuff....just a gentle understanding that you are safe.
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