Honestly we just don't want you to get hurt. You keep saying your dont want to hurt others. But you are the one getting hurt by these wrong men. Just please be careful. Playing video games is fun but it's not real life. You can't get to know him on a deep level just because you play diablo.

Now if you don't want to end it why not meet first rather than moving? What type of career does he have that he thinks of getting transferred to the states? Is he an engineer? Scientist? He can't just get transferred with whatever career. He won't get work visa.

If he is suffering from horrible anxiety in his own land, do you think he is capable of moving himself across the ocean, getting a job, place to live and get situated in a foreign land? I immigrated to the US from Europe. It's not easy even without anxiety. How is he going to do this? You don't drive. Who is going to get him places? Is he able to buy a car? Right away?

I don't think he is thinking it through.