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Originally Posted by Out There
That does seem to be quite confusing behaviour. Not really what a T would do normally. I feel something is up with this T. Do you feel it's in some ways a bit like your Ex T , like it's still abuse couched as care ? It's not overt with this T , but Ex T thought she cared in some way , albeit it twisted. I feel a bit blunt saying it like that - I know you're very attached to these T's Mona , but truly people need a stable T.  |
It is quite strange behaviour and I don't understand it. It doesn't feel like abuse or anything like ex t because I would give her what for and go back to normal but this t is almost begging for my forgiveness. It's different being a t and going to see another t. They expect you to be more understanding and forgiving. I really felt for WHT, there was a real sense of urgency in her voice and I could hear her attachment to me. I just really needed her to be normal. It doesn't feel abusive OutThere but it does feel a bit like emotional blackmail or trying to foster an attachment to her.
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Originally Posted by Calilady
Really? Do you find that dynamic confusing, w/she having an attachment to you as well?
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It is very confusing but this tends to happen with every t of mine. Must be something about me