You seem to be WAY too focused on appearance and don't seem to recognize that appearance is only a very small part of attraction. If the primary reason you are interested in this woman is the way she looks, that would probably be very off-putting to her. Women want to be appreciated for their intelligence, personality, and positive attributes-- not just a superficial "you're hot." And if you think women would like you just for your appaearance and money, you're off base. Women are not that shallow. It seems that your thinking is very distorted. It may be more helpful for you to invest in talking to a therapist so you can see if your OCD and distorted thinking are getting in the way of healthy functioning.