I cannot deal anymore. I have been entangled now in the family drama, yet again. His mother and I talked for a long time last night. His grandma, who kicked him out four months ago, offered for him to come back in the last few days, then retracted the offer. Now his mom is singing a different tune -- shes says he would not have been homeless when his grandmother kicked him out, yet the first words out of her mouth when that happened were "well, you can't stay here". So I swooped in to save him at that point. WTF. I really cannot deal anymore... yet I was the one who convinced his grandma tonight to take him back. I still feel guilty, even more so now that his mom claims he wouldn't have been homeless, even though she herself didn't offer it up when she has two extra bedrooms. Tonight she told me she has to take care of herself, that she is exasperated with him, and doesn't know what to do. I am caught up in family drama, and all I want is for him to have a freaking roof over his head and for his family to take responsibility for the sick child they have. Is that too much to ask for??? WTF.
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