OK so perfect example of WTF! Last weekend I heard more than once that H was going to drive down to see that movie with SD this Sunday. You know, the one he said would be fun and then a few days later said looked stupid and he didn't want to see, but he would still go down. Drilling into me about how she should move up here. About how she is struggling. Here I am freaking out about him having a talk with her about living here. They haven't spoken in a week and last night he says to me "So do you want to go down to that bar on Sunday afternoon and watch the football game?" Ummmmm okay? Obviously totally forgot about going down to see SD! Doesn't mean he won't remember today but acts all high and mighty that she needs direction and he's the one to show her but totally flakes on going to see his SD he sees like twice a year! THIS is why she doesn't need to move here. Total disregard for doing things that seem so important to him one day and the next he'd rather go to a bar!

This is the exact attitude he'd have towards her. He'll have the best intentions of putting her on the right path, but after a couple of times of her not following through he'll just go "We're going to go to a bar, you can do what you want".