That's great that you got over that hurdle. Don't fall into the pit of thinking that divorce is something you need your husband to give you. You've made sound preparations. Set your own time table for moving along. Don't get sucked into back and forths with him over who treated who wrong and why you are justified in leaving him. If you are satisfied that you need to move on that's all you need. You don't need his blessing.

I'm glad you feel better. Now make things happen that need to happen. I hope you have an attorney you trust.