My mom misses talking with me, she feels hurt and mad because we dont "talk" even if we live together... i just dont know what to say! Or maybe im too absorbed by myself, my feelings, thoughts, duties and life.

My T said what she really wants is a connection but i dont know how to give it to her, and honestly im not sure i want to give it to her. Not sure why talking with her is so difficult...

I just feel annoyed by her and whatever she says. Maybe its because i need my independence, i dont know... i REALLY dont want to hurt her or to make her feel abandoned, but even this, her needing me, annoys me and pushes me away.

I dont know how to solve this. It feels like i have to choose between her needs and mine...