ok so you started out with

so now I'm a bit confused. when you replied. it sounds to me like you're doing everything you can to savor the attention of females and if I might be so bold as to say you're "playing with fire" when it comes to the gym. to me, it seems like your decision not to date was half baked because doing all those things you do in the gym is the opposite of making it easy for you to avoid being tempted to date.

so to be honest, I'm not sure how sold you are on the idea of not dating really.