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Originally Posted by Purple,Violet,Blue
If your friend knows about your issues, they'll probably understand, and not be angry.
At the same time, if you've made it too hard, they might prefer to find a friend who doesn't have a low opinion of them.
You seem to be very focused on your own needs, but not putting yourself in their shoes. Honesty is essential in friendships. But if your friend is a decent and sensitive person, you shouldn't be hurting their feelings.
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I never had a low opinion of this friend at all. I realized I'd become attached in ways I shouldn't that soon into the friendship. I didn't trust myself or in myself, to be a good person, to have control, or to be a good friend. I've only had one great friendship ever and I don't know if that could even happen again. I thought I might be developing an intimate friendship (intimacy does not mean sex here) and wanted to make sure they were aware, and that I wasn't detracting from their relationships they already have. I wanted to make sure I wasn't disrupting their life