Just a wondering question - would it be helpful to have one more meeting with him right before the end of the year - a catch up, update type of deal. It might make things worse, it might make things better - I don't know. It was just a thought that floated through when I read your post. I guess I was thinking about how after you break up with someone and you meet up with them months later, sometimes it can be good and help put that final closure in place. Other times it just sucks and brings forth all the feelings you had because it was too soon. No answers, just a thought.