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Originally Posted by AlisaLight
Allowing him this breakup would mean allowing him to have all the power,and also...hypomanias can last for months...what if that opposite dark side would end up cheating on me-because I gave him means and freedom to do so,and then when the real him switches back he'd see what that horrible ******* did...he'd never forgive himself or get over that...what then???!
You can't allow someone in such state of mind power to do anything that person wants...because such person enjoys such power and control over ppl,it feeds that personality...if you don't stop this situation, whole hell will break loose :/
That's why I can't say yes to him and allow him to have control...no matter how horrible and painful it is  |
A breakup has nothing to do with giving him power...it means he needs to be away from the people he loves so he can recover...and people with multiple personalities will never recover and will have those personalities for the rest of their life. So if he is your soulmate, the evil personality will be your soulmate as well. Can you handle that? Do you want that? I don't feel he is the one reigning in the power...you sound very controlling yourself...giving him an ultimatum and refusing to establish healthy boundaries...A breakup will not give YOU what YOU want, a feeling that YOU are not in control.