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Originally Posted by golden_eve
I'm very sorry for what you're going through. I do not advise stuffing down and ignoring your feelings and needs though. I completely understand the desire and need to do so because it may be too painful. Have you thought about couples therapy? Not sure if you're looking for replies here on this, but that is one thought at least. If it were me, I would want my needs to be met. You deserve that. (((((hugs))))))
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I know it's probably not healthy but I have tried so much and so hard this past few months to be heard and I have gotten nowhere. He won't go to the counseling. Feel is painful but I'm mostly stuffing them down because it keeps my household happy. He is happy when I'm not nagging him about my needs, I can be a better mother when I'm not preoccupied by trying to get my needs met. So I'm just trying to make my family happy. Fake it till you make it, right?
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Dx: Bipolar 2, Anxiety disorder, Adjustment disorder with mixed anxious mood.
Medicine: 40mg Latuda, 35mg HydroXYZ
Past Meds: 20mg Latuda, 150mg Seroquel XR, 50mg Topiramate (Trokendi XR), 25mg Vraylar, 25mg buspirone
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