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Originally Posted by tecomsin
Thanks for sharing seesaw. Yeah I've got to stick with my gut reactions when they are so strong. I just remember this suffocating feeling coming over me when we were talking and he seems to have had no idea of his effect on me.
I am really just looking for friendship at this point and not a physical relationship but even that seems so hard to find, but I will keep at it. All it takes is one or two new people in my life and I will feel better.
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Hi Tecomsin--I had earlier encouraged you to maybe overlook how he behaved when you first got together. I just wanted to say that clearly your gut instinct turned out to be right and my take turned out to be wrong. We all struggle to trust our gut, especially in the face of others' voices who say differently. For what it's worth I thought you should hear from one such voice--mine, in this case--that clearly you were right about things.