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Originally Posted by divine1966
I really don’t understand how your husband can demand you don’t busy yourself. This isn’t 1800s. He can’t demand such things
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Would demanding that she stay more busy be just as bad as demanding that she stay unbusy so she can spend more time with him?
Tisha--you spend a lot of time worrying about others/pleasing others/second guessing yourself (the concern for others is good!). If you are both financially secure--just enjoy it! You DID help your H make this happen by handling many details so he was able to focus on his career.