Yes the kids would be with me. It's pretty much the default thing to do. Hopefully I'll be able to get my life back together this year. Im just so anxious about this. I'm gonna miss my T. She's really great. The Time I had before her was nothing compared to her and now I'll have to find someone else. So that's something I'm also scared of. I guess I just have a lot of emotion with this. But I can't stay here. Thanks so much for your reply and support.