Thank you for your help. My husband and me had a good long chat. It was good that everything was on the table. He finally realised how unhappy I am. I still want to move to Germany but he now told me that he doesn’t want to. He doesn’t want to leave his job or sell the house. He was always hoping that I will settle and be happy. I can understand that he doesn’t want to leave his job and the rest. I mean in Germany he would be like I am now. I really would try and make it work regards our love life but in the long run he still wouldn’t want to move. So it’s either leave him and move back or make it work but be unhappy with my life.
The biggest problem will be that the 3 older kids want to stay here with him.
I really don’t know anything now.