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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I was abused emotionally. Mom was abusive. We model our parents. It kills me how I have been emotionally/verbally abusive to my h. This is the cycle of abuse. So, the PC rules that say I am not welcome here because I have been emotionally abusive, are not hard/fast rules. I am on here to get help and cope.
Plus, I do not act abusive to anyone on PC.
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I thought for a long time I was not angry, but that was an illusion. I have to accept my own anger before being able to deal with it, rather than denying the anger altogether. My abusive behavior tends to leak out when I am angry... it's like I still have tapes to unlearn.
My experience is also that abusers will claim that they are the only one's being abused. Some people seem incapable of examining their own actions or they are blame casting.