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Originally Posted by confused_77
I think the high is mutual, because I get intense pleasure from knowing there is this person who knows my most inner thoughts. Its one of those that I don't really want to learn other techniques. its like an addiction you dont want to quit! it took me forever to get to the point where I am and the idea of being able to talk about whats really going on and not do the quick, 'im fine, how are you' version of evets is my high. When you hold so much in for years and there is this person who reads all the nonsense, all the very intense accounts of whats going on in your life you dont want it to stop!
I just wish she would send the bouderies and tell me when enough is enough
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Why do you need her to be the one to set the boundaries? Can you try to set your own boundaries instead?
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Originally Posted by confused_77
I send long paragraphs about my emailing to her telling her that I will continue the messages unless she approaches me about it. i do know she reads them and there has been many many times when I asked her (in the email) to tell me if anything has to change.
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Since you stated you feel guilty for emailing her so much and are terrified emails will get banned or restricted, why not stop sending her so many long paragraphs about the subject of your emails to her? Don't add to the consumption of this. By now, she is aware. She will tell you if anything changes.