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Originally Posted by FallDuskTrain
Hey TishaBuv,
Has this happened in this past? and if so, how did your husband react back then?
You indicated that he does not tolerate your MI well.... which is very unfortunate. I know how much it hurts to have your health problems invalidated by your loved ones.
In any event, I hope you are feeling calmer now.
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When I told him I must definitely have PTSD, he said
It really started about 5 years into our marriage. I became turned off to him. Seeing it clearly in hindsight, it was because, well frankly, he was a turn-off. He was angry all the time and obsessed with his very stressful job and he neglected me sexually. He made it awkward and not how I wanted him to be. Of course, it took me a long time to see that. When I told him what I needed, which was him to want me, to reach out for me and hold me, kiss me, turn me on, make love to me at least once a week whether or not I was wearing sexy lingerie or sweat pants. But he wouldn’t/couldn’t and then we got into a whole toxic way.