Hello!! If this date happens, it would definitely be in a public place -- what's scaring me is that he says he was brutally assaulted in a park at 3am (not exactly public at that time) so does this suggests anyone could be assaulted in public??

I've gotten to know him fairly well, we're both looking for the same things (assuming he's telling the truth) and he comes across as harmless BUT I have no idea what's happened. Could I be seeing things that aren't there??

The big problem here really is that part of my mind os telling me that he might be a straight man posing As a gay man and trying to earn my trust to lure me in so he can attack me