Thanks guys, and yes he's critical in other ways... He tells me when I'm not playing a game right, driving right, doing anything right... he tells me when I look fat and he tries to control my diet...for example he will say I can't have a pop at lunch, only at dinner.. When we go to the gym he tells me that I'm not working hard enough and tries to push me until I feel I'm going to throw up..which is good but at the same time I don't know if it's right...