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Originally Posted by starrysky
This thread is helping me, too, Rdgrad. Thanks for posting about this.
Seeing someone as disposable is a great analogy for those people. Cielpur and others have some pretty good advice here. Surrounding oneself with people of solid character and letting others fall by the wayside is excellent advice! And yeah, if someone is telling who they are, believe them! At some point, they'll behave poorly towards you, too.
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I am glad this is helping you. I agree with you and everyone else too. Yes the person who bailed on someone and said she got called in when she really didn’t was honest with me, but what she probably doesn’t realize is how it caused me to lose trust in her. Like I mentioned to someone else, in the rare cases where she says she gets called into work, I am always wondering if she really did or not. With most people, I believe it. But with her, it is more questionable. As for the person who faked a friendship, yeah she was not a real friend. She complained a lot and got mad at me and called me clingy if I ever called her out on something, even though I would do it politely and not actually in a rude accusing manner.