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Originally Posted by divine1966
You weren’t in that relationship and don’t know greystreet in real life. So if she tells you how her relationship went, it’s not productive or called for to argue that you know better. Arguing that you know how her relationship went better than her isn’t helpful. Plus she asked you to stop. Please respect that.
If you want to have general discussion about people doing crazy things in relationships, you could maybe start your own thread.
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Not to mention that he HAS seen the entire story, in the NPD forum (I was discussing it with Atypical_Disaster whom I respect to give incredible insight into the NPD mind). So you can understand why it's suspect to me that saying "I don't understand," and "It's unfair..." and the decision to continue to draw it out is quite suspect to me.
There is no need to draw it out further. For the purposes of this discussion, I think this thread has run its course. I
wholeheartedly thank those of you who have participated and have helped me through what was a difficult weekend. At this time, I feel pretty steady and able to continue to move through this. If need be (and I'll probably need it again at some point!), I will post again.
Again, I think this thread has run its course. Thank you.