First of all, this is my first post here in about six months. My marriage disintegrated, I was homeless for six months through the Winter and my health deteriorated accordingly. My wife immediately joined this and another forum I belong to. It's been a couple of months since she's logged in though, I've found housing, and once again have access to the internet. I want to be here and I'll be staying as long as I don't get stalked.

I'm wondering if a moderator could stop by my...hmm, not sure what to call it, the place where one can leave public messages for me, and delete those by her? I deleted all the PM's without reading them but don't need the practice being triggered by reading the messages she left me publicly. If that's something you don't do, no worries, but I'd like to be able to read everyone else's messages without stumbling unexpectedly upon one of hers. Thanks.