So how are others not being selfish and stupid for insisting that you continue to "live" for their sake? We all die eventually. And we all will eventually leave someone behind. So for some suicide is the right answer. (I am not saying that VO should kill himself.) "It gets better" Well not always. For some it does not get better. So take make such a blanket statement about it being selfish and stupid is just an uneducated statement.