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Originally Posted by Colleen007
Hi Movingon69,
Are you and your husband in a place where you could ask him not to allow what happened between you and your daughters to affect his relationship with them? If he maintains a relationship with them, at least a line of communication will still be open, and could result in a faster reconciliation. If he turns his back on them out of loyalty to you, the family rift/estrangement could go on longer than anyone wants.
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He had been trying to maintain a balance but I called one of them the other day hoping she'd let me tell my two year old grand daughter happy birthday. She said I couldn't talk to her and she "would pass it on". It completely sent him over the edge. He called her. She got mad at him, said she was done, and hung up on him. Then her husband posted on FB "Never push someone who is loyal to the point where they don't care." He is, at this moment, writing her a letter that would have allowed him to finish his point. I have no idea how this is going to go. I got so depressed when she wouldn't let me talk to the a 2- year old I took more medicine than I should've and slept all day. I know that's not the right strategy but I was so crushed.