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Old Jul 20, 2018, 04:16 AM
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Originally Posted by Ididitmyway View Post
Oh, I see. Yes, I know some people who don't like being touched, so bodywork is not an option for them. In that case, I'd suggest to do anything that produces sensory experiences such as doing something with clay or mud, walking barefoot on any natural surface (grass, sand, mud, soil), doing a little self massage with therapeutic oils (it's good to warm up the oil for a better effect), swimming (water is amazing for relaxation). It's also great if you can completely lose yourself in doing some artwork, dancing, playing music. Literally anything that can take you away from your mind and merge you with your senses is the most therapeutic thing in my experience. If you can do it and the experience becomes spontaneous, some unexpected emotions may emerge. They could be both enjoyable and painful, but, whatever they are, it'll be safe to experience them like that.
Bodywork does not have to involve being touched. My therapist uses an embodied relational approach and knows I have problems with touch but we still do bodywork, all that you are describing is still bodywork.
Thanks for this!
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